The Expert and I headed out for a forty mile ride this morning. Last week my ride stunk, so I was careful to hydrate well yesterday and fuel well. We showed up for the ride and I was all ready.
As I was waiting for the Expert to pump his tires, I checked the Swim Bike Mom Facebook page, and I had a minor heartattack.
Andy Potts? [No, that's the Expert.] But this is Andy Potts:

This little post by Mr. McAlcatraz called to mind two things:
Holy. And Guacamole.
So I was very excited about the Andy Potts fortune. I squealed in the parking lot of the park, and the Expert told me to calm down and quit jumping up and down so he could read the phone…
We had a great ride.
Hot and sweaty and I was close to a bonk-a-thon on the third giant incline towards Harbins Park. But about 37 miles and we were done, and pigging out at lunch. I know I need to eat well on these types of days… but I just want to eat…well…anything.
Sadly, after dinner tonight, the Expert and I drove by a law office of a fellow attorney who passed away yesterday in a motorcycle accident and I got very teary. He was not just any attorney, though — he was in my graduating law school class and a good friend. He always would tell me, “I need to get my bike out of the garage and ride with you guys!” Instead of a road bike, a motorcycle was his poison of choice. And while riding yesterday, he lost his life. I will really miss you, Trey. You always took away the stuffiness of local bar events and made me smile. A life way too short. I have been reminded of this far too much lately.
I am just glad that the last conversation I had with Trey… was him sending me a joke email about putting cow’s milk into my water bottles for my next long ride. True to form. A joyful spirit who left way too soon.
Take nothing for granted. Hug your friends and family. Kiss your significant others and children. Smile and jump up and down when Andy Potts Facebooks you…. live and breathe in every moment. You never know when it may be your last.
































Huge smile to start, then a laugh, and left with tears! So sorry about Trey!
Looks like “the experts” bike seat is set too low… lol
You know how to make a girl laugh hysterically and then cry like a baby. Im so glad I stumbled upon you and that you inspire me to do great things. Im sorry about your friend, how sad.
So cook about Andy but so sad about your friend.
Awesome post! Really loved all of it.
I’m also sorry to read about your loss and the loss to Trey’s family. RIP.
I’m so sorry for Trey and your loss. You inspire me every day. I love your blog
Love the Andy Potts shout out! Glad you had a good ride! You’re so dedicated and inspirational! Sorry about your friend
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I choked when I read about the loss of your friend, Trey. Some stories can be so close to home and I am very, very sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you, love and support during your time of grieving and beyond. Heavy sigh!
Nice riding with Andy Potts hey? “The Expert.” That’s funny! That cheerful and fun moment couldn’t have come to soon. Good timing.
Love reading your posts. They put a smile on my face every time.